It is true that the majority of wisdom is gleaned from experience. It is also true that experience is the bitterest of all teachers. But, for those of us who can’t shake the urge to continually experiment with new ideas—to take them out into the world and “test them out” or “try them on for size” before either accepting or rejecting them—the hazards of experiential learning cannot be avoided. Only mitigated (hopefully). I am of the belief that those of us who are curious, adventurous, and playful enough (and who have a bizarre enough sense of humor) for this kind of behavior are not entirely “off” in our unconventional approach to gaining insights, and even wisdom, from perpetual experimentation.
As for me, I have a bit of a mischievous side. I mean no harm. But, I do have a tendency to do some things just to “see what will happen” (generally, my last words before either extraordinarily pissing someone off or embarking on one hell of an adventure). This can take the form of testing the real world applicability of concepts I’ve learned or read about, testing the merits of a brand new idea, or combining unlikely, or opposing, elements to see what, if anything, they will make. I like to go deep with ideas that really entice me. Very often, that means pushing boundaries and temporarily suspending all caution. Now, I don’t take a “let’s see what happens” approach to everything I do. (Thank God.) And I always try not to be irresponsible or neglectful of others.
I just like to tinker with ideas and take chances for the sake of learning—you know, just to “see what happens” if…
Because there’s always a chance that “what happens” will be marvelous.
It probably goes without saying that there are perils to this kind of approach to satisfying one’s curiosity. There are. Believe me. And if you can’t stomach the consequences, I would caution you against engaging in such behavior. It’s risky. I will, however, defend the merits of experimentation because I think, when mitigated properly, it has multiple, significant benefits. And let’s face it, for some of us, tinkering with ideas comes so naturally that, “To do it, or not to do it?” is never the question. The trick is learning how to do it mindfully. And without getting burned.
Experimenting keeps us playful.
If I were to hazard a guess about where the desire to experiment comes from, I would have to say it is born of a childlike curiosity. That is, in fact, precisely how I would describe the experience. Just as writing is a means of playing with words, so is experimenting a way of playing with ideas. It is that playfulness that’s so valuable—and that I would never want to lose or to see anyone else lose by not engaging it enough.
It teaches us to grapple with uncertainty.
Before I do anything in the way of testing an idea, I consider all eventualities. What is the range of possible outcomes if I test, say, a new business idea? Can I handle the worst-case scenario? What if I succeed? Am I prepared to make the personal and professional changes associated with succeeding in this new endeavor? Will others be affected, and to what degree? (Might I actually need to talk with them before I take action?) What if I don’t do it? What will the consequences be, then?
Knowing how to brace oneself for uncertainty builds confidence in an array of situations.
Experimenting with an idea can help us see the big picture more clearly.
We can’t understand some concepts fully until we apply them. Intellectualizing simply isn’t enough. For those of us who enjoy thinking beyond the characteristics of a concept to consider how it works, what its limitations are, the terms in which we should be thinking about it, and how it fits together with other ideas in the grander scheme of things, application is vital. One cannot possibly achieve that level of understanding without experience.
It gives us the confidence to trust our own minds.
This is, by far, the greatest lesson I have learned from my tendency to experiment. To trust my own mind. I also think this should be one of the primary goals of any education. Once you stop relying fully on other people to tell you how things work and start trying to figure it out for yourself, you develop greater confidence in your own judgments and intellectual abilities. Being adventurous can go a long way in fostering independent thinking.
Knowing when to experiment and when not to–and how far to take your creative and intellectual escapades–comes only with experience. And with getting yourself in trouble. More than once. That’s where wisdom most often lives, you know. In your mistakes.
22 responses to “For the Experimenter in All of Us”
Lovely!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks!
LikeLiked by 1 person
[…] of posts titled, “Pillow Talk.” I am thinking of “Pillow Talk” as an experiment of sorts. The first is a vignette, titled […]
LikeLike
Reminds me of the frog and the scorpion, story.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yeah, it kind of does, doesn’t it?
LikeLike
I used to catch scorpions. The larger Chihuahua sized ones. It’s not the venom that bothered me sure, you get a little loopy. The stinger is a half inch like a tarantulas. So, my biggest fear was bacteria and once I got over it. The sting was not so bad. You mentioned the fear of experimentation. That’s good.
LikeLiked by 2 people
Ooohhh…you gave me the chills conjuring the image of a tarantula and its stingers! Although I’ve never encountered a scorpion up close and personal (though a friend from Phoenix was stung once), I am absolutely TERRIFIED of spiders! This exchange makes me chuckle, in a way…Experimentation should, at times, make me afraid because of the risk it carries. Yet, silly and entirely irrational fears–like that of spiders–often scare me more than the real stuff…Probably happens to us all that way a lot of the time.
LikeLike
They don’t bother you much after the first sting. Like women, I guess. 😀 The tarantula habitat has become smaller but they could still get to a pound or a little more. It’s true, and most predators depend on that fear. Snakes, prefer to be left alone than to strike. I was thinking though, experimentations require a baseline and then, to overcome the fear. Somehow, trial and error or theory.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yep, like a hypothesis to guide your inquiry.
LikeLike
Are you from Arizona?
LikeLike
Nope, but I’ve been spent some time in Phoenix.
LikeLike
I do too, on occasion. I grew up there, kinda.
LikeLike
That’s why you’re so conditioned to scorpions and tarantulas! 😳
LikeLike
You got me. I always liked the misunderstood creatures.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I used to catch lizards as a kid and now I’m terrified to touch one. Seriously, what gives? Lol
LikeLiked by 1 person
Ha! I guess we just get weirdly cautious as we get older sometimes. Spiders have always terrified the life out of me. Unfortunately, that hasn’t changed!
LikeLike
Maybe it’s conditioning. We live in a society that’s just over sanitized but still filled with trash. If it’s not clean and wrapped in plastic it must be dirty.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I just hate the idea of their cold, squishy bodies and tiny teeth, lol. Just creeps me out. But yes, there’s plenty of trash hiding in plain site!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’m very much of the “let’s just see what happens” and “what’s the worst that could happen” schools of thought. It has almost always worked out in my favor. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
It’s funny, sometimes the very best stuff happens when you’re totally open to whatever comes your way 😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
Except lizards! Haha. Thanks for following, btw. Your blog looks very interesting. I look forward to reading more.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Aww thank you! I look forward to reading your future posts, as well! Oh, and except spiders, too.
LikeLike