Fool’s Gold (A Letter to Tim)

This post is composed of excerpts from an email I sent to my friend, Tim, last week. Otherwise known formally as “T. Blake,” Tim is the artist who created the visual dimension of Seven Road. We correspond regularly about our work. About our creative struggles and achievements and, more importantly, about the spiritual dimension of our respective artistic journeys.


I get disappointed in my work, too. And, interestingly, that’s a feeling that’s also been plaguing me recently. I am learning that periods of relaxation, or simply doing something other than creating, are necessary for me whether I like it or not. I most often become discouraged with my work when I am forcing myself to do it for the wrong reasons. I have to write a poem so I can publish on the blog this week, etc. And that’s no good. It inevitably leads to shoddy work. The kind of work that isn’t satisfying to me and that never feels spontaneous, carefree, or playful as I’m doing it. These are also periods in which I get an all-consuming thirst for novelty. A desire to write differently. To create something entirely new.

It’s just that way these days. I sit down to write a new poem and end up with pages upon pages of lines I can’t seem to put together in a manner that satisfies me. The lines themselves are alright, I guess. The sentiments. Imagery. Construction. But I can’t seem to rid myself of an inner voice that says, “Ok, now make it different.” I like to think I am close to actually doing something stylistically fresh and new for me. Well, I’d better be because, I can tell you, I have already grown tired of doing it all the same old way. But creative insights happen in their own time. And in cases like these, too much striving is undoubtedly the enemy of authenticity. 

But, anyway, in response to your concerns about creating art that makes people feel

It is a shame that we seem to be surrounded by so much apathy. Apathy to beauty, to art, to nature, to kindness, to the experience of being human, generally. I think that’s why we feel so good when our art strikes an emotional chord, really resonates with an audience, however small. Maybe I’m just getting surly as I get older, but I am increasingly discomforted by the apathetic society in which we live. 

I’ve also noticed lately (and this might be an odd thing to say, but maybe you’ve felt this way before), that I have become more concerned with being kind. I sometimes feel that, in art as well as in life, I am searching for goodness. For that one good thing. For a way to revive my own spirit by just being a more decent person instead of allowing myself to fall prey to the narrow and pungent ego-centeredness that defines our culture and of which we’re all, tragically, capable. I want my poetry to be a kind of “good work” too. Not happy or appeasing or pretty, but my distinct contribution to human society, even when it causes others discomfort. On some level, that is where The Used Life came from. Not just from a desire to explore my interests, but to make something of them—something authentic, useful, and (hopefully) beautiful—that I can offer the rest of the world. I think you probably operate from the same place with your art. Somewhere deeper. Articulating those inner visions and all of the emotional experiences that come with them is the most soulful form of self-expression I can think of. Or of which I am capable, surely. 

It’s a gift we have, I think, even though most non-creative types don’t understand it. And they don’t. Especially when they think it’s necessary to give us advice. Trying to be supportive in a way that only they understand. I believe it is impossible to explain those inner experiences to them, though. Why we value the world of imagination over stone cold living. May sheds light on this dilemma:

In our day of dedication to facts and hard-headed objectivity, we have disparaged imagination: it gets us away from ‘reality’; it taints our work with ‘subjectivity’;  and, worst of all, it is said to be unscientific. No wonder people think of ‘art’ in terms of its cognate, ‘artificial,’ or even consider it a luxury that slyly fools us, ‘artifice’…What if imagination and art are not frosting at all, but the fountainhead of human experience? What if our logic and science derive from art forms and are fundamentally dependent on them rather than being merely a decoration for our work when science and logic have produced it? – Rollo May

That’s what it is: a disparity in values. By virtue of our creativity, our values are different. What we see is different. How we think about everything. I don’t know about you, but sometimes I feel like I am completely backwards. Like everything I value most in the world is artifice to everyone else. Not the serious stuff of life. Why we see our imaginations as a source—as THE source—of what’s meaningful, good, and true. And why it’s more important than all the other crap we could be busying ourselves with. Our visions, the overwhelming urgency that accompanies the need to create, the ecstasy, the absorption, the way the whole experience overtakes us. And why it’s an end in itself.

I guess, in a way, my creativity makes me feel like I carry a little bit of god around with me. Even when I get anxious and frustrated and feel entirely too sensitive and vulnerable to the whole process. That, in the silence, in the recesses of my imagination, I get a glimpse of that one good thing I’ve been after. And everything else is just noise.

6 responses to “Fool’s Gold (A Letter to Tim)”

  1. “Staring down reality
    Don’t do me no good
    ‘Cause our misunderstanding
    Is too well understood …
    I’ve really got to use
    my imagination
    To think of good reasons
    To keep on keepin’ on …”
    ~ Gladys Knight 😎

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  2. Holy cow. I don’t know what to write after reading something like this…

    ‘Thank you’ for starters. What can I write now that you haven’t expressed perfectly? I feel I inundate you at times with jumbled messes of thoughts, worries, concerns…

    You seem to understand my own feelings in ways I often don’t. And then you write your thoughts down in ways that make mine seem to make so much more sense.

    Thank you again; for everything! I’ll be in touch again soon. Much to explore! Happy New Year to You and to Yours!

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    • And a Happy New Year to you, my friend! ☺️🥂 Thank you for always listening to me, too.

      It struck me when you said: “You seem to understand my own feelings in ways I often don’t. And then you write your thoughts down in ways that make mine seem to make so much more sense.” That is a writer’s job, I imagine, the primary job. And you state it well.

      I also think this is the point at which writer and psychologist are one and the same. About the time I started this blog, I was thinking psychology was the primary avenue I should explore, maybe take another class or something, get my feet wet (again). But the more I wrote, especially creatively, the more it became obvious to me that I was already doing it. Just in a different way (and I dare say that writing poetry is way more fun and suitable to my personality than trying to be some kind of scientist). I never could properly untangle the roles of writer and psychologist.

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  3. You know one of the most difficult challenges for me to overcome has been feeling like I belong to the art world, that I am in fact a creative type, but having no place to call home. This has made me feel insignificant, and not really an artist or creative at all.

    I have learned so much from your journal entries about this journey. I have connected with your insights in ways similar to twilder and it’s made me feel like regardless of title or successes there is so much value in choosing creativity everyday. Thank you. I wish I had time to say more about this post and expand and give examples, maybe another time

    Keep doing what you’re doing, cause your doing it great and making a difference.

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    • Thank you for the wonderful and encouraging comments. It means a great deal to me to know that this project resonates with you the way it does. I often feel the same way, as if I don’t have a niche or a home as a poet (or any other kind of creative professional). And it’s a weird feeling…when I am in the middle of creating, it all feels so wonderfully right. But it’s the doubt that comes afterwards, especially the feeling that I’m not a “real” or “serious” poet. As if there’s a club of serious poets out there somewhere that I’ll never be a part of.

      And yet I know I can’t stop creating. It’s like breathing. Even when I begin to doubt the value of my work or my place in the whole scheme of the art or writing worlds (which I find it tragically difficult to understand and navigate). I have to remind myself creativity is an end in itself. Thanks again and Happy New Year!


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